臨床現場で使える英語:産婦人科・助産師・女性総合編 – Pregnancy: A Partner’s Perspective「男性育休・育メン・スーパーダディ」#9

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Pregnancy: A Partner’s Perspective 2017/08/21

妻が出産を控えている夫のための父親学級

St. Louis Children’s Hospital/Belly to Babyシリーズ

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専門用語
perceive【動】〔目や耳などの感覚で~に〕気付く、見抜く。〔~を〕理解する
perception【名】〔感覚器官による〕知覚、認知、知見、見識、感じ方
perspective【名】〔物事に対する〕見方、態度、視点

the pregnancy process
ultrasound equipment
week 39 in pregnancy
a due date
women in general who are going to pregnancy
go through
at the beginning of pregnancy
tired
nauseous
don’t feel well
at the end of pregnancy
you can’t get comfortable
eight hours of sleep
interrupted
sleep-deprived
lead to irritability
short-tempered
I can’t do anything for myself. It’s frustrating
a responsibility
have someone else around
ask for help
humbling
lost the ability to multi-task
adjustment
fall asleep
trimester
pre and post baby advice
anxiety
sleep deprivation
let’s not underestimate
feel uncomfortable every moment of the day
it’s not necessarily like pain
I’m really hesitant to label pregnancy as disability
supportive
be patient
it is time-limited
it’s not forever
my white coat
have been in practice for a few years
peek behind the curtain
acknowledge 〔~を事実だと〕認める、認識する
you have to make adjustments
be kind to yourself
patient with yourself
ask your support system to be kind
it’s okay to talk about it
I’m not the first person to ever have a baby
I realize that this is temporary
inappropriate
we were at five weeks out
informative show
practice the positions
labor class
accountability
emergency c-sectioni
apologize
false alarms
painful huffing puffing ハーハーと息を切らすcontractions
every eight minutes for three hours / dead stop 完全停止
muscles are talking to each other
the cervix is getting softer
excited/ scared in pain/ frustrated/ exhausted /all these things
sometimes you go in /you get checked /you leave /you go back home
physiologically important priming process事前準備
contractions
just go in and get checked 担当医に診てもらう
that’s a perfectly normal acceptable thing to do
cervical check determines whether you stay or go back home
sometimes you can stay and walk and get checked
due diligence
go ahead
I can’t do this
hard answer
you don’t know till you’re in it
anxious
in labor
hard to predict
prescribed process
you may push three hours〔出産の時に〕力む、気張る
baby doesn’t come out
high blood pressure
feel totally fine
she’ll probably snap at you(人)につっけんどんに言う、(人)につらく当たる
it hurts
you see blood
be messed up /my own blood
his head is like on the perineum 《解剖》会陰
watch the baby panting 【自動】荒い息をする、息を切らす
taps out〔中身を〕引き出す
a middle ground
medical professionals
be required to
hold legs
washcloths
chips 削り取る
thirsty
labor nurses
get you involved
ask not to be induced
want their induction date 誘発 or c-section/ so they deliver on Monday
the doctor who’s on call
the baby came out and goes to mom
sewing prep
bracelet
crocheting かぎ針編み
diapering is a big help
cleaning a baby is really helpful
the support that Abby is going to need is food and stuff to drink
hungry
thirsty
everyone’s different

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- killer content
- the partner experiences throughout the pregnancy process
- sleeping regularly
- eating like a champ
- haven't learned to cry yet 
- exactly 
- ultrasound equipment 
- I'm  not ready for that 
- week 39 in pregnancy
- please let us know 
- a due date 
- you can easily go back and reference them 
- get started
-  I'm not talking about Abby.  I'm just talking about women in general who are going to pregnancy
- go through
- at the beginning of pregnancy 
- tired
- nauseous 
- don't feel well 
- at the end of pregnancy
- you can't get comfortable
- eight hours of sleep
- interrupted
- hear a baby who needs you 
- take care of a baby
- mechanical 
- sleep-deprived
- lead to irritability
- short-tempered
- that's okay 
- out there
- I can't do anything for myself.  It's frustrating 
- below your knees and above your shoulder
- implement
- a responsibility 
- have someone else around 
- ask for help
- dropped a sweetener packet on the floor 
- pull something out from underneath a cabinet
- his toothbrush is lost for good but don't worry we got him anyway 
- humbling 
- lost the ability to multi-task
- smart, very talented and does a lot of things at once and has a big list of things going on
- she's carrying a watermelon around 
- adjustment 
- address issues
- things that are funny in normal relationship/ you never know so /unless she's laughing. it's not funny 
- fall asleep 
- punch you in the throat
- pregnancy journey
- a bunch of patients 
- understatement
- trimester
- pre and post baby advice
- describe
- adjust a little bit 
- recognize
- I mean
- it's part of long-term relationships
- we have partners who go through bad times at work, we have partners to go through physical illnesses and you have to just roll with a little bit 
- predominantly
- anxiety 
- sleep deprivation 
- let's not underestimate 
- feel uncomfortable every moment of the day 
- it's not necessarily like pain
- I'm really hesitant to label pregnancy as disability 
- as a partner
- supportive 
- things have shifted a bit 
- be patient
-  it is time-limited
- this isn't the rest of your relationship with somebody
- this has an end date 
- challenges shift
- welcome to life 
- it's not forever 
- get through this
- it'll shift again soon
---
- I'm in my white coat and I'm trying my best
- appealing 
- doesn't affect the baby
- you have been in practice for a few years
- influence your experience
- expect better than you think 
- I was humble
- I was disappointed 
-  I was uncomfortable
- I was tired 
- peek behind the curtain 
- acknowledge 〔~を事実だと〕認める、認識する 
- don't feel good
- run nine miles a week
- you have to make adjustments
- be kind to yourself 
- patient with yourself 
- ask your support system to be kind
- some women run marathons in their third trimester 
- they have no complaints at all
- they feel great emotionally, physically or both 
- wrong
- it's okay to talk about it 
- unfortunate situations
- absolutely 
- no reason 
- you feel bad
- you feel guilty 
- I'm not the first person to ever have a baby 
- I realize that this is temporary 
- I realize that we are so lucky
- you have to work with your partner and figure out a way to get what you need
- make a list
- fun stuff 
- had the opportunity to know
- hold accountable to 
- make your world better so my world can be better 
- give me the list / I'll take care of the list 
- inappropriate 
- we were at five weeks out
- informative show
- I'm like
- make you feel better 
- practice the positions 
- labor class 
- honestly
- contact information for the doctor 
- accountability 
- the list of people to inform when we go in and when we come out
- a list of snacks 
- you're a downer がっかりする、気のめいるような[出来事・経験]
- emergency c-sectioni
- apologize
- you may choose to eat your own food that you enjoy 
- personally and professionally 
---
- false alarms
- painful huffing puffing ハーハーと息を切らすcontractions 
- every eight minutes for three hours / dead stop 完全停止 
- emotional roller coaster 
- a dress rehearsal 
- muscles are talking to each other 
- the cervix is getting softer 
- excited/ scared in pain/ frustrated/ exhausted /all these things 
- the real deal 
- it's not a failure of the uterus or the woman or the baby 
- sometimes you go in /you get checked /you leave /you go back home 
- physiologically important priming process事前準備
- contractions 
- it's been an hour 
- at least five into five minutes
- just go in and get checked  担当医に診てもらう
- that's a perfectly normal acceptable thing to do 
- cervical check determines whether you stay or go back home 
- sometimes you can stay and walk and get checked 
- due diligence 
- go ahead
- hey it's go time 
- it's time to go from there
- I can't do this 
- leave up on me 任せる[委ねる]
---
- common stages that women go through during that dance 
- I've never been in there and I really have no idea what to expect
- hard answer
- you don't know till you're in it
- somebody who's been cool as a cucumber/ the whole pregnancy /will really have a hard time with loss of control 
- anxious 
- in labor 
- hard to predict 
- prescribed process
- loss of control/ ultimately that's what it is
- we've prepped準備してきた
- when labor starts/ all you can do/ is just have your team around you/ that you trust /and go with /what happened 
- your cervix may get to five then stop
- you may push three hours〔出産の時に〕力む、気張る 
- baby doesn't come out
- high blood pressure
- feel totally fine
- come up with a code word 隠語、慣例語/ that only breaks attention /or make you laugh /or have something in one of your laptop /like a funny show /that you like 
- hilarious 
- distract
- enjoy each other a little bit
- she'll probably snap at you(人)につっけんどんに言う、(人)につらく当たる  
- be honest/ it hurts
- it's not a small creature /that's coming out of a big space
---
- how involved /you want to be /in the coming up 
- I'm pretty good and comfortable /being around 
- you see blood 
- be messed up /my own blood 
- I've been in deliveries /where I have to ask the dad to move 
- his head is like on the perineum 《解剖》会陰 
- watch the baby panting 【自動】荒い息をする、息を切らす 
- taps out〔中身を〕引き出す
- a middle ground
- depend on/ how things are going 
- how easy it is 
- medical professionals
- be required to
- hold legs 
- washcloths
- chips 削り取る
- thirsty 
- bring some from home
- put those in the freezer 
- play nine cubes if it is a c-section
- labor nurses
- get you involved
- make you feel like /you're participating
- baby comes out
- two of you 
- an eclipse baby/ that is my hope
- I was born on the night of a full lunar eclipse
- as soon as we were given the due date for this and I heard the thing about solar eclipse
- we want afternoon kids 
- ask not to be induced 
- some cultures /it's bad luck 
- want their induction date 誘発 or c-section/ so they deliver on Monday
- the doctor who's on call
- the baby came out and goes  to mom 
- sewing prep 
- venture? bracelet 
- crocheting かぎ針編み
- pull up in the house
- our neighbors are always watching /everything okay 
---
- we now have this baby/ who needs to be fed /every three hours 
- take off the first full week 
- for a while
- we'll probably have two weeks together
- here's the part /that's hard for dads 
- Abby and the baby are this biological Diane?
- they need each other 
- the dads can feel a little bit out of it and that's not a happy feeling 
- feel  sidelined /because you can't breastfeed
- first week especially /you have to think of the baby /as almost still attached to her
- diapering is a big help
- cleaning a baby is really helpful 
- the support that Abby is going to need is food and stuff to drink 
- hungry
- thirsty 
- everyone's different 
- I remember personally I was so non-stop thirsty
- somebody bring me a water /the nicest thing/ anyone's ever done for me 
- make sure the mom and the baby are together and Morgan? safe 
- all the other crap /it's not fun like laundry /is really helpful
- that doesn't bring you the joy of loneliness
- that's what you need 
- there's a process so and there's a give-and-take 
- you know 
- more refined
- it's like 
- okay we've got a noon feeding /we got three feeding /we got an eight feeding/ and we're to keep on this thing /so you know /in the middle of the night /you know /what can I do to get mom back to bed /as fast as I can 
- what do I expect /do I feed the poops right away /and then I go in/we're going to get at poop/ and then we're going to feed /and is there a pattern 
- honestly 
- everyone has a system and they're going to tell you what system they had
- try one and see if it works 
- your baby will be like suckers 
- this is nice video and then you flip it 
- especially in the first week /you have to have some protected time /that you sleep /but unfortunately/ if your baby does eat every two to three hours
- sometimes it'll cluster to every hour 
- but trust me/ it won't last forever
- that's just/ babies do 
- you've got to be there in someway to help 
- you have to be available 
- say what you need 
- luckily you guys have family in town/ and you have health
- a 1 hour nap feels amazing
- 
- moms and dads and moms and support people who work well 
- I'll be home /I can do all these things
- this is hilarious hahaha 
- I was preparing for my boards when I was about to have a baby 
- I'm like 
- oh my god 
- I'll totally study for my boards because I as an OBGYN didn't get it 
- so I touched my boards with an eight-week-old 
- I don't have any boards to take 
- I would draw these things 
- I can imagine like /my husband may have thought /have a weak home 
- we're going to schedule these press conference calls
- I'm going to do these things /like I would just encourage everyone 
- Joe you should literally count on sleeping when you can /because you're
- going to be up all night
- this is just a logical side 
- Adam is my brother,  Carry, his wife, favorite wonderful people 
- envisioned 〔将来起こり得る良い事を〕心に[思い]描く 
- super dad 
- super help 
- super involved 
- an infant who is breastfeeding
- in particular 
- adapting to 
- this is all speculation on my part and observation / totally different in their actual experience 
- learning how to adapt and help
- the non glamorous stuff/that really helps though 
- all hands on deck
- 48 day old dirty dishes in the sink 
- bugs come /unclean dishes
- clinking learner problem
- she's making soup
- apparently they have not had mice
- bugs and mice 
- peanut butter
- compete
- an actual point 
- derailment
- baby needs to be fed overnight
- mom physically doesn't need the help /do you still advise  dad to wait 
- imagine /a recent vagina or abdominal issue /are getting out of bed /getting the baby changing the diapers/ feeding /spitting up /cleaning /putting the
- baby down / that's a lot in that first week /
- physical health is huge 
- twenty minutes you're up plus the cleanup plus decker and all that 
- you may have a baby /that's 30 minutes on both on each breast/ and then safely for one hour /and they're ready again
- it shifts 
- It's fair to say 
- three ish a.m. 
- I got this you go rest 
- I'm going to do every feeding overnight because I'm the one with foodis 
- how lucky are you guys like a lot of people don't have the choice
- a collection of all moms on postpartum
- regenerate
- conscious decision
- independently 
- she's doing a great job
- kept looking or thinking 
- how did you do this by yourself 
- people who don't have the option to take time off of work
- fortunate
- Mama's recovery
- obviously 
- we've covered postpartum /and earlier segments 
- getting herself back in an active state that she wants to be in
- what's the time frame for her
- she can walk around /she can push the kid around 
- I think it's pretty fair /one to two weeks /depending on /how the baby came out and how much collateral damage was
- good walk and you need air /you need noton? /your face? and you need friends to take you out /not just come and sit /and hold your baby that's something you need
- we've talked about this many times
- it is not going to be delightful to be pregnant during the heat of summer
- by command
- it'll be nice in the fall 
- they have those first couple of weeks home 
- The baby will want to go unlocking
- rial defender
- a lighter baby
- in the next two weeks all hands on deck 
- what if 
- I'm disappearing for five hours in a day 
- there might be someone who stops by /and says /hey you know what /I'll hold the baby while you shower
- measure
- have the luxury of working from home
- help partially 
- that's normal to feel a little bit lonely
- how come other people are back to work
- they're going out and doing things 
- no matter how much /you want to be a mom or how much you chose this where how much you love your baby there's moments of like I'm really freaking jealous that you get to go to shows by yourself and you get to wander the produce aisle for 20 minutes and noone needs your left breast oh how nice for you 
- they're just a little bit of life
- be ashamed about
- suck
- I've been irritated by something that I wanted
- it reminds me of
- the best advice I got was from my friend Chris
- has gone through five pregnancies 
- they have one set of 26 kids and he goes to me 
- she's not mad at you/ she's not angry/ she's just pregnant 
- huge insight 
- sleep deprivation/ tired /not feeling like yourself /not being able to do the things you can normally do /not multitasking /people are irritable 
- the maximum tired
- it's a huge thing for your partner /when you say /things like 
- that recognition is just a huge relief 
- two weeks or four weeks or six weeks after birth 
- filter comes back/ the smile didn't /things are funny again 
- a true marriage for you
- the resting place
- entertaining 
- I was convinced 
- I swore that my back was killing me
- out for Mexican food
- we went over to a neighbor's house and they had a pool /I got into that pool enjoy 
- curative 
- love batteries
- so true 
- it's frustrating/ it's hard to be irritating to be at a party/
- exhausted 
- I was so determined to not ask for help
- I'm losing it
- put your plugs in and go take a bath
- even if the baby cries /the baby's going to be fine in 20 minutes/ the baby will not perish/ I need a moment
- you're in the depths of that newborn period 
- insight 
- parenting
- interesting 
- my parenting friends /who we just have /a little bit of like/ similar life outlook
- try to open up a little bit to somebody 
- in the parenting world
- your neighbour 
- you can text me and say I am losing it
- maybe you'll feel more comfortable
- vulnerable with and other people
- a facade 
- you're willing to be that kind of person for people 
- you see this all the time
- I worry about exhausting my friend 
- as much as I know
- they've already done so much / they can't be asked to do one more thing /they have three kids/ they're going to think/ I'm weak/ if I'm totally crying
- terms with
- hall 
- unmanned 
- zip up at us 
- holding a baby is fun 
- ask for help /find something that you can come back to/ that makes you laugh /TV shows /movies/ inside jokes /whatever
- give each other space to sleep /and understand /just figure out something that works for both of you /because if you're both not sleeping at all /because you're trying to be there for each other 24 hours a day/ that will not last/ and some humans can't do that 
- go to appointments 
- awesome
- do insistently 
- it works different for different people 
- everything's gonna be different 
- some people have huge families /and they love the energy of a big family 
- people come from a family of two and they have one comes in and they don't like crowds
- sounds like you guys are type-a ish
- talked a lot about it 
- we're both list makers 
- give it a shot
- make a schedule for the week/ who's gonna help with laundry /who's going to bring over some frozen lasagna
- specifically 
- you don't need every meal of every day for three months 
- ready to fly on your own you don't need help at eight weeks 
- your baby's fussy and you're still struggling at three months /which is not weakness so babies are like in all my heavens 
- I mean
- I have one brother with their first child 
- they traveled all the time 
- locked her in a seat and went everywhere and didn't care
- the other brother had a baby /who didn't have any of that /until he was six months old 
- drilled to be anywhere 
- I have no idea what I'm going to be like
- you can have a date /you can get somebody for 90 minutes to come your house and/ you guys can go on a date
- getting coffee and it's like/ you will be just the two of you/ and remember that you guys are the center of this whole thing/ and now you're expanding your center /but it started with you right/ I just feel like oh yeah like/ I'd like you to write here /whatever is in the book/ that we got during our class here 
- childbirth classes
- in terms of 
- which person would do/ what job and to sit down /and an online / do the exercise separately
- put it on your list 
- check out very slowly
- things need to be done 
- I go on maternity
- they're getting sick 
- all right we make it through
- when will I see our doctor again 
- when will we see our pediatrician for the first time 
- efficient 
- OB
- you go home from the hospital
- roughly the same 
- form babies who are on formula
- a little longer 
- your OB/ you will see at 6 weeks /unless you had a c-section or consultation
- they might see you at one to two weeks 
- how do you know the signs that there's something more than tired/ going on with mom / meaning/ if it's postpartum depression /or I'm maybe not quite as severe/ but how do you/ what what do you raise your hand 
- gentle news
- I was back in my balloon
- livid
- I got my bearings back and wasn't quite as hormonal 
- a design I never expected 
- prevent 
- I was a hotmap 
- I didn't even realize it 
- you're going to get resistance from somebody 
- no matter when or how 
- you bring up to them
- they're getting a little deeper into depression/ anxiety
- everyone gives you a pass for two weeks /unless you're having thoughts of hurting yourself /or hallucinations/ or saying
- at one point I was so sleep-deprived
- I didn't listen eight fighters falling at the wall 
- get a pass
- you notice she's not showering
- if Abby's not eating or drinking
- it's just like a drop off
- if she's crying all the time
- I'm eating a cry coming 
- today smelling 
- pretty normal for the first couple weeks
- you're nodding
- you agree 
- a lot crying and doing the laundry while crying 
- watching Mad Max Beyond Thunderdome and like crying 
- these are things that use probably odd effect
- fit the situation 
- some examples I can think of 
- offending others
- I think /not showering/ the big one/ like I worry about
- women who come to see me for postpartum checkup /incision checks or blood pressure checks and you can tell /they're like/ it's not about makeup it's about /like are you clean
- I think that's personally something /I look for 
- anything else 
- so helpful 
- give you our insurance card 
- microscopy 
- do you feel like this helps you 
- easy to address for certain partners 
- learned from books 
- I watched a video and understand or listen to /someone talk /and understand /now it's a little closer to home for me/ because it's my partner right 
- help you get there
- the same span 
- we'll be back in some form or fashion in the coming weeks
- for the next couple of months
- hey babies here Facebook post
- we will just say goodbye for now and we'll see you soon

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